9/29/2023 8:38:13 AM
Mr BarryP Posts: 970
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Gents - I am abit annoyed at the following and think its time to call out the WGS who need to be hi-lighted for certain unethical / unfair issues
Eg: - 1) Name changing
To those well established WG who change names -
this is a waste of time and causes confusion for many as the next punter will say who is this - any review etc
The dodgy WG often changes names - to keep fresh amongst new punters -
ESA - WG's remain 99% on 1 profile only - no issue
2) Fake / Filtered Pics
Many a WG is falling short here and creating a major false impression of what you end up booking
3) WG'S demanding money -
This is either by messages / calls at odd hours requesting this or worse straight out expecting you to be a bank
There is clearly a difference between a WG and a SP
Once you know the difference you will be more inclined to book an SP - even though there many be some issues on certain things rather than a WG
This is just me venting out on whats happening apart from the MAJOR LACK OF TALENT HERE IN KZN........
Lastly, is if fair to accept that even as we chose the WG
she also has the right to refuse being chosen by you
Does choice work both ways Can she refuse FH , Bare Bj etc and not be judged for it as she did mention this upfront etc
Just asking as it seems to be a trend with many topics currently
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9/29/2023 10:53:33 AM
Assetmanager Posts: 1163
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Yes Barry. These are all really concerning. Changing names and photoshop are annoying but we can get around them. Demanding money is becoming a problem. But I have experienced this with girls that I believe have become very familiar with me.
Now the interesting one. A girl can certainly refuse to perform any service. I believe forcing performance would be rape. However if it was a service offered and then retracted then there shouldn't be any payment either. The fact of the matter is that you can't force her to have sex.
I firmly believe that money should only be paid after service was rendered. That way you pay for what you received.
I often pay more than what was asked. Always after.
Money first ruins the session for me. Immediately my mind goes to bad service.
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9/30/2023 3:31:39 AM
JC420 Posts: 162
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Agree with both above.
Been really disappointed with the Durban options. Don't know how that will improve.
Hopefully more out of province options pay us a visit.
Just one of thing that annoys me is poor communication. If you have whatsapp, it should be a copy paste of your services and explanation. If you don't it should be quite easy to explain and provide info. I've been put off punts that guys have then said we're decent because of poor comms or poor attitude on the call.
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9/30/2023 3:48:34 AM
dane Posts: 208
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Guys mind me for having a blonde moment What is SP?
Barry I fully agree with your post. We punters are putting up with alot of fakes! Multiple ads. Different names. We gota come together and sift out the girls. Cause RV us not gona do it
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9/30/2023 6:42:38 AM
nevil Posts: 1438
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service provider
lack of talent and lack of ethics from wg / sp whatever you would like to call them it something very common
the eagerness to short you on service but collect full fees is alarming
you could put them in the category of those guys who do those card tricks on the side of the rd , no matter what you gonna part with your cash
its just tactics and a hussling game for some
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9/30/2023 8:23:23 AM
Assetmanager Posts: 1163
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There are many good honest girls in the industry. But there are also plenty dishonest ones. Makes choosing a punt tough at times. I find that having a conversation on the phone before booking has improved my success rate. If the girl does not indulge then rather not book. That call covers many aspects including the venue description, hygiene practice, service offering, privacy. A good 5 to 10 min. The girls that are in a hurry to cut the call get cut. The ones who go through the interview satisfactorily get a new client.
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10/2/2023 12:42:59 AM
Mr BarryP Posts: 970
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@ Dane - SP - service provider , WG - Working Girl Difference for me is that an SP provides a service with the fee - basic decent overall atmosphere with great service They focus on retaining the client with great service etc
The WG - focus is money - and that is clear when as soon as you hand it over the session takes a nose dive into a boring cold 30min where u just want to leave
They live for the day and dont care for you or your return as they will catch another punter tomorrow using fake filtered pics great wording in the advert and a sexy voice over the phone etc
@ JC420 reality we cant change what is happening in DBN now just be glad if u had a good SP that sees you and stick with her point taken on communication - it can be a deal breaker
sometimes the sweeter the voice - the more the bait is being dangled - just becareful
@ Assestmanger - 100% - a call does help settle things abit and agree with your first comment on this thread as well
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10/2/2023 12:50:53 AM
Mr BarryP Posts: 970
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@ Nevil - yes they are hustlers problem is gents keep getting hooked
I dont think many know about the forum or do any homework
They just click on available - call and book
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