2/28/2019 10:16:33 AM
russian bridgitte
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Dearest Gentlemen
Some time back, i wrote a poem for those who might have thought along the lines of prostate play, scrotum massage....and the ever interesting strapon.
I have decided to post it on the forum. Such erotic indulgence is not only rewarding for the receiver but...as for me...what pleasure to feel, see hear and know...i have shown u another way of realisation of the most sensual sort.
Confidently...i can say...i know mans body...i know his pleasure...for in finding your erogenous spots...u make me real horny!
and thus...look forward to indulging in adventures new...any questions...please do not be shy to ask...on this forum as it may give me and others the freedom and comfort to realise your desire to indulge in the future.
the conversation started with a simple "Hi",
an acquaintance near forgotten, from time gone by,
no intent of topic at hand to be discussed,
by the persistent questioning of how life be, i be unfussed.
all of a sudden i began to think,
what was it i heard the other day, be there a link?
to confess to the desire of adventures new to travel?
inhibitions, insecurities, urban legend unravel?
and thus gently i began to prod,
a coaxing slow, getting there, receiving a nod,
a shy man... his fantasy needing release.
yet, scared to acknowledge it, the desire appease.
it had nothing to do with standard sex or coital indulgence,
but, rather the need of a transcendence,
he worried his masculinity be questionable,
in dabbling of something real exotic and concessional.
the freedom to let go and discuss the concern,
for too long his mind had been eaten up, the idea did burn,
it be about a strap-on, prostate play and much more,
the fantasy needing to be a reality, to open the door.
from a nervous pretentious conversation,
listening, hearing and asking was my navigation,
eventually, a laugh, the banter, the excitement the elation
of what we spoke about fired his imagination.
all i know ... a strap-on awaits
in how it shall pleasure, it satiates,
and another fantasy does become a reality
dabbled in complete surrender and serene confidentiality.
why would a strapon a mans masculinity question???
even a taboo to think about it or mention???
prostate play and much more
dear gentle men, no need to worry, men u still stay for sure!!!
but, whatever u do, do it with care
in your indulgence, be wise in your share
personal pleasure need not be inhibited
nor unnecessarily constricted.
RB.
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2/28/2019 10:30:14 AM
russian bridgitte
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should you wish for a more private forum then please send me an email via my webpage
www.russian-bridgitte.com
always yours.
Bridgitte
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3/7/2019 6:37:34 AM
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Greetings dearest sexy ones
A touchy subject this and i am sure has many men cringing at the mere thought of indulging in sexual play different, such as, using a strap-on. To many, a put off and thinking it may question their masculinity. Of course, each to their own, for what may be an acceptable fetish or fantasy to one, may not be so for the other. I have found that a lack of information or understanding leads to much hearsay and the rise to urban legend, giving it power and truth, making many shy or fearful to express their curiosity.
And since my original post there are a few regular questions that have been forwarded to my email and thus i shall take the opportunity of answering them on this forum too:- ( ....and should one wish, all answers are of course available on the net....here are my responses)
1. what is prostate play / milking ?
It is a method of play / massage... internal or external, allocating the prostate gland (feels like a small round ball), and stimulating it through pressure applied and released. The benefits are both therapeutic in a health wellness way, as well as increasing sexual pleasure.
The most important is to indulge in such play with an open mind and desire to be led and showed how to relax and surrender to the person administering such play.
Of equal importance is the understanding the administrator possesses of the delicate line between giving pleasure or potentially hurting the receiver.
2. What is the difference between external and internal prostate play / milking and what does it entail?
The words are self explanatory but, in both cases there are a few steps that should be followed before indulging in such play.
- as stated before, the correct mindset and desire to indulge in such play, is required.
- to ensure levels of comfort and complete uninhibited surrender, an emptying of bowels and bladder is recommended.
- a condom or non-latex glove and lubrication should be used at all times by the administrator.
- there are various positions one can take to make the play both easy and extremely sensual and erotic.
- take the lead from your administrator...relax...allow your muscles to respond to the teasing touch.
iI find that sensual play and teasing and real naughty talk and body on body massaging helps to get to that point of a desired level of trust and confidence in what would follow next. It is NOT a process rushed or forced or mechanical.
Usually, i place myself, seated, between the bent knees, spread legs of my gorgeous sexy man, who lays on his back at a 45 degree angle on my adjustable plinth...of course...prior to that, we have indulged in play before such a position is taken and his penis is more than welcoming of my touch as are his eyes of my nakedness....this is, when i wish to use my hands for the prostate play...be it internal or external.
A basic run down
....cupping the scrotum (balls) and gently pulling and massaging and squeezing with one hand, while running the other hand up and down the shaft, applying different pressures, speed, sometime all the way up and down, and sometime just midway....the hand playing with the scrotum will then begin to massage the perinea area which is located midway between the scrotum and anus....massaging the bum cheeks (glutes)...soft gentle teasing strokes on and around the anus...the thumb doing its part still on the perinea and now and again running in the crease of the leg....external prostate play....
all of the above with a slow and gentle slide into the anus ( lubrication, relaxed muscles, nothing forced for the most delicate tissue is to be found internally)...............a gentle probe for the prostate, gauging the receiver at all time. Once the prostate is allocated then begins the applying of pressure through circular movements, stop and start, sliding your finger in and out. At the same time the other hand is playing with the shaft...pressure applied and released simultaneous with the internal play or alternatively....internal prostate play....
The stimulation of the prostate releases fluids to the tip of the penis and it gives the sensation of wanting to ejaculate / cum.
By gauging the receiver one is also able to prolong the process and control ejaculation by stopping the stimulis and then re-applying....so it is like a roller coaster ride of the most erotic sort giving the receiver high levels of pleasure and a prolonged erection.
It is also worthy to mention, that patience is required...especially for first time indulgers....to fully appreciate and accept both the wellness and sexual benefit and enjoyment of prostate play.
3. Is it painful to indulge in a strap-on and does that question my masculinity...is there something wrong with me?
Fear of being labelled deviant has led to much being swept under the carpet and thus misinformation and true deviancy taking centre stage and drowning the need to rather educate oneself before jumping to conclusions that something may be wrong with one or, that certain desires and needs are best not addressed potentially leading to frustation and / or possible indulgences in practices that leave ripple effects unsavoury and worrisome.
Here i would like to stress that i do not condone or judge any sexual or sensual activity but, do believe that such indulgences shared between consenting adults, sound of mind and respectful of each others desire to indulge is a healthier option than living a lie. Yes. It does take courage and understanding of self and accepting of self to dabble in fanatasies and needs, without affecting or hurting others that may not understand. Coupled with that is emotional maturity, an understanding that gender preference does not change because one may enjoy a strap-on play.
Another term for indulging in strap-on play is called pegging.
The definition of pegging is a sexual practice in which a woman penetrates a man's anus with a strap-on dildo.
Such an indulgence again, is not a process hurried nor instant but, would take place after much play and relaxation of the anal muscles through prostate play. It is about being pleasured...both for the woman and man. Size does matter and there are strap-ons of various size...just like the male penis....choosing one that is most comfortable and desired should be discussed.
I find that positioning oneself to receive optimum satisfaction is of importance...and thus the man leaning on a surface such as a table or plinth or going on all fours on a bed( with a mirror to witness the erotica of the moment)...is possibly the best option to indulge in pegging.
I promise u, it is sexy, it is rewarding both for the giver and the receiver.....BUT do not over think or start regretting or doubting your need to indulge....if that would be the case....rather walk away and simply enjoy many other sensual sultry shares that are on offer and u would be comfortable with.
4. Cock and ball torture (CBT) ...how painful is it and does it have negative effects?
I am not one to administer any high level of pain when it comes to sensual / erotic activities. But, i do find that there is that fine line before one goes over the threshold into the realm of BDSM that can be extremely arousing and satisfactory leading to intense pleasure and sexual / sensual relief.
What i ask for in this instance is trust and the surrender for me to take the lead, be the dominant one and apply a restraint, mild application of slapping, squeezing, pulling, use of glove with different texture on scrotum and and and...
Whatever way we may indulge in, the period of restraint and play does differ from person to person and would not exceed periods of my then 20 minutes odd...again communication and the understanding of what it entails always leads to greater satisfaction for both parties involved.
Is it dangerous and does it leave negative health issues.....like anything in life, understanding and knowing the limits is paramount. There are various signs one can keep an eye out for when indulging in CBT and most important of all....listen to the signs of ones own body...if it feels wrong...then simply stop...and if after play the is a discomfort or change...rather seek medical advise.
And thus....overall no matter ones choice of erotic and sensual play...most important of all is the sincerity of the share, the desire to be respectful of each others needs and limitations and to take the care to deal with uncertainties and questions before indulging in any form of play.
As always...your
Bridgitte.
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3/12/2019 3:32:57 AM
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Greetings dearest all...
Question posed quite often....
5. I would like to try prostate play and maybe pegging with my partner. How should i broach the subject.
Not an easy one but, not an impossible one. As in most things communication and conversation lead to knowledge gained,a better understanding of things unknown, misconceptions and preconceptions addressed. Vocalising and sharing ones interest or curiosity is a start.
Anything new is best shared in baby steps thus, giving chance to understand, accept and adapt that a new way of play is non-threatening, non taboo and wonderful when consensually shared in the privacy of ones own surrounding.
If a relationship is one of conservative background and has been since the first meet...the difficulty is greater for, then, one is asking the other to breach a huge gap between their levels of acceptance and understanding as to what should happen between lovers / partners. In such a case the journey forward is more intricate and involved.
For those that may have simply become bored or lazy to apply themselves in their love life and know that their partner may be open to suggestion new...then take the plunge...still carefully and on an evening or lazy weekend when legs are entwined, atmosphere relaxed, bring up the topic as to what her thought may be on something that has caught your attention and would be interested to hear her opinion.
In all cases there is not a standard approach.
Each individual is different and as would the response be.
Most important to remember....be real about the person you are sharing your sexual intimacies with, be real about that which is between you and them... and if it is a matter you know would do more harm to broach and you still desire and wish to indulge in such erotic indulgences...then make sure your choice of space and service provider will be one that will leave you feeling euphoric rather than regretful and guilty.
As always...your
Bridgitte.
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